PASTOR’S PERSPECTIVE: “Solving the ‘real problem’ of the Christian Life”.
By: Ron Woodrum
One of the most brilliant minds of the 20th century was Clive Stapes Lewis (1898-1963). After his conversion he used his brilliance to defend, illustrate, and edify the Christian faith. In his book Mere Christianity, he talks about solving the real problem of the Christian life. This is what he says, “That is why the real problem of the Christian life comes where people do not usually look for it. It comes the very moment you wake up each morning. All your wishes and hopes for the day rush at you like wild animals. And the first job each morning consists simply in shoving them all back; in listening to that other voice, taking that point of view, letting the other larger, stronger, quieter life come flowing in. And so on, all day. Standing back from all your natural fussings and frettings; coming in out of the wind”. The key to the Christian life is to abide in Christ, by staying connected to our Heavenly Father by way of prayer. It is the only way to listen to the other voice. To keep a perspective of His point of view. It is the only way to stay connected to His power and presence for the demands upon us each day. As Christians most of us have an insatiable desire to spend time praying to our Heavenly Father. Yet most of us are willing to admit that we spend far too little time doing this thing we say our heart desires. We do not pray as we should. Why? The usual answer is that when we attempt to do that very thing we are overcome by distractions. Even the most dedicated and famous believers have admitted to such difficulty.
Thomas a’Kempis (1380-1471), author of The Imitation of Christ, said that when he entered into his prayer closet and tried to focus on heavenly things that a rout of carnal temptations would rush upon him. John Donne, (1572-1631), English Poet and Clergy, author of For Whom the Bell Tolls, wrote: “I throw myself down in my chamber, and I call in and invite God, and His angels thither to join me, and when they are there, I neglect God and His angels for a noise of a fly, a rattling of a coach, the squeaking of a door, a memory of yesterday’s pleasures, fear of tomorrow’s dangers, a straw under my knee, a noise in my ear, a light in my eye, an anything, a nothing, a fancy, a chimera in my brain. All these trouble me in prayer.” Martin Luther was no stranger to these struggles. He wrote, “When I would speak and pray to God, by myself, a hundred thousand hindrances at once intervene before I get at it. Then the devil can throw all sorts of reasons for delay in my path, he can block and hinder from all sides; as a result, I go my way and never think of it again. Let him who has never experienced this only try it. Resolve to prayer earnestly, and you will see how large an assortment of your own thoughts will rush in on you and distract you, so that you cannot begin aright!”
When that happens what should we do? We must resolve to pray in spite of that. You keep calling yourself back to your Heavenly Father. You keep at it-as a spiritual discipline. Henri Nouwen, Dutch author, theologian, and Christian Psychologist (1932-1996), dealt with this issue. He decided that the only way to overcome it was to go ahead and schedule 30 minutes a morning to pray and to stick with it, at all costs! At first his thoughts ran wild, like the untamed animals that Lewis talked about. But he kept telling himself, “Since I am here for this half hour anyhow, I might just as well pray”. The sense of awkwardness gradually faded and in time he felt his soul settling down to a more calming rhythm. He concluded, “The paradox of prayer is that it asks for serious effort while it can only be received as a gift. We cannot plan, organize, or manipulate God; but without careful and consistent discipline we cannot receive Him either!” Irish Theologian, Herbert McCabe, (1926-2001), had a very novel perspective on distractions in prayer. In a very insightful way he suggests the following: “People often complain of distractions during prayer. Their mind goes wandering off to other things. this is nearly always due to praying for something we do not really want…something respectable and proper…but something you really don’t desire deeply like-peace in Northern Ireland or your aunt to recover from the flu-things that you should want, but really don’t want all that badly! Your prayer is rapidly invaded by distractions arising from what you do really want-perhaps like that promotion at work, let us say. Distractions are nearly always your real wants breaking in on your prayer for edifying but bogus wants! If you are distracted, trace your distractions back to the real desires it comes from, and pray about these. When you are praying for what you really want-you will not be distracted! PEOPLE ON SINKING SHIPS DO NOT COMPLAIN ABOUT DISTRACTIONS DURING THEIR PRAYERS!” (We should pray like we would if our ship was sinking).
Karl Barth, Swiss Theologian, (1886-1968), wrote concerning prayer, “He is not deaf, He listens; more than that He acts. He does not act in the same way whether we pray or not. Prayer exerts an influence upon God’s action, even upon His existence. That is what the word ‘answer’ means. The fact that God yields to man’s petitions, changing His intentions, in response to man’s prayers is not a weakness. He Himself in the glory and majesty of His power has willed it to be so!” John Milton, of Paradise Lost fame, (1608-1674), encourages us to incessant prayer when he said, “And if by incessant prayer I could hope to change the will of Him who can all things do, I would not cease to weary Him with my assiduous cries!” George MacDonald, (1824-1905), points out the real reason for all prayer. He writes, “He that prays and does not faint will come to recognize that to talk with God is more than to have all prayers granted-talking to God is the end of all prayers!” Even as we wait for God to intervene and answer we are experiencing fulfillment of our greatest spiritual needs and desires. Listen to the great British preacher and theologian Leslie Weatherhead, (1896-1976), explain this: “I have always found prayer difficult. So often it seems like a fruitless game of hide and seek in which God hides and we seek. I know God is very patient with me. Without that patience I should be lost. But frankly I have to be patient with Him. With no other friend would I go on seeking such scant, conscious response. Yet I cannot leave prayer alone for too long. My need drive me to Him. And I have a feeling that He has His own reasons for hiding Himself, and that finally my seeking will prove worthwhile…I long for more satisfaction, but I cannot cease from questing. Jesus sometimes found prayer difficult. Some of His most agonizing prayers were not answered. But He did not give up praying. I have frankly little to show for all my prayers, but I cannot give up, for ‘my soul longeth for God’ and I know that outside of God there is nothing at all”
Spending time with God in prayer is not the only way to see God do for us what no one else can do…but it also allows us to learn the joy of His presence…and the fulfillment of all of our greatest yearning. Go ahead…talk to God…like your ship is sinking. He is better than the Best Father. He cares. He listens. He answers. Distractions and all…do it…you won’t be disappointed. You might just solve the real problem of the Christian life. You might be surprised what it results in. Let me finish what C.S. Lewis said in his earlier thought…he continues “We can only do it for moments at first. But from those moments the new sort of life will be spreading through our system: because now we are letting Him work His work in the right part of us. It is the difference between paint and stain. Paint is merely laid on the surface, and stain soaks right through!” Constant practice of prayer is indeed permeating to the inner man!